How can I make my relationship better?
Sitting there wondering what you can do to make your relationship better is easy. Actually doing something is the hard party. Do you remember the story of Snow White? “Mirror, mirror on the [...]
Why does the fighting never stop?
Arghhh it has happened again! Another day, another argument. Now you are internally screaming – “Why does the fighting never stop!!!” It is no surprise that when we have the [...]
How to resolve conflict in a relationship
From the inside out! Traditionally conflict is viewed as external to us, with the problem being with someone or something else. As a result, the only way to resolve the conflict is for the other [...]
Articulating Emotions into Decisions
Marriage isn’t always easy, and unfortunately, sometimes two people in love, grow apart. During this stage, emotions can be difficult to decipher. Focusing on your emotions can be painful, so [...]
Nothing is good enough.
Do you feel like nothing is good enough when it comes to your spouse or co-parent? I was talking to a John* recently who was telling me all about the issues he had with his ex *Sam. John and Sam [...]
Have you asked a loaded question?
Have you ever found yourself asking a loaded question? You know, the type where you know the answer is never going to be good enough, but you ask it anyway. This happened recently between 2 [...]
Arguments – What’s the point?
Have you ever been in an argument with someone who was convinced that the opposite was true. You know, those arguments where, even if you were talking about the colour of the sky you [...]
Don’t be fake
Have you ever been fake just to get what you want? I had a mediation the other day and from the moment that I spoke with each of the parties, I realised that something was off. Both of them were [...]
Miscommunication & The wise old man
One of the greatest causes of conflict in any relationship is miscommunication. As humans we always think we are much better at communicating than what we actually are. Especially when it comes [...]
Do you want your relationship to be different?
Have you ever wondered why your relationships is how it is. Have you ever asked yourself “why can’t my relationship be different?” In the world of social media it can be easy to [...]
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Posted How often is this a cause for your fights?
Expectations… Have you ever been on the receiving end of someone’s expectation that you didn’t meet? Has anyone ever been on the back of yours? Picture this, you drop your children off at [...]
Ego v Best Interests
When it comes to co-parenting – which one will win? Recently I worked with Jack and Sara**, who struggled to co-parent their children together. Whilst they had been separated for some time, [...]
